Notes to Cindy: The Archives

Arguments are funny things in a loving relationship. Like normal arguments, there's crying, yelling, and hurtful words, but if you truly love the person and have matured enough, they strengthen your bond rather than weaken it. Anya and I have had many of these. Since meeting Sammy and Halo, I've realized through observation that when you do not truly love someone, but instead only certain things about them and how they make you feel some of the time, rather than everything about them and every feeling they give you, these arguments will sever that bond. Worse iw when, either because of these things or in relation with them, one or both parties are infeldious, while still refusing to accept their own issues and still judging each other through hippocrasy, and as a result, becoming jealous, not only of third parties, but also other couples- especially couples who lack these issues, or at the very least work through them peacefully. My darling, Anya, and myself have observed on multiple occassions the effects of the relationship described. Both Sammy and Halo, when around us, are more calm and collected, being careful to speak to both of us and each other as ewually as possible, while subtly flirting with Anya and myself, respective of opposite sex. Their jealousy compells them to tear us apart, which I suppose would seem fair in their eyes. the tatic is a simple one: to instigate the feeling of jealousy between us by making themselves appear more desirable, respective once again to the opposite sex. Anya and I both had suspicions of this from the very beginning but did nt discuss the matter until such suspicions were, all too obviously, confirmed yesterday afternoon. I suppose their heated argument the night before sparked a touch of desperation in them which caused them to be less subtle. I'm curious to know if the act is conspired, or rather individually plotted by like minds. Either way, it has become apparent that with these two acting as described and Logan finding every excuse to talk me down and touch my girlfriend, that, as Anya has said before, it truly is "Us against the world." The good news is that, because of the way our communication has been imprving, such matters were discussed and we have resolved to systematically avoid these people and others like them.